
As expected month 2 was easier than month 1 in Germany. I truly enjoyed going back to my month 1 posting and re-reading my first impressions. The first 2 months have gone by quickly and I believe we have adjusted very well to our surroundings, thanks to our diligent months of planning and preparation in India. Ben has done everything possible to ensure that I have a smooth transition. He enrolled me in intercultural class, forced me to drive stick shift even though I was scared, and supported me during my worst cooking dissasters as I try to adjust once again to new ingredients and conversions. While we are not completely settled we can atleast say we have pictures on the wall and a general routine to our lives.
The highlight of the month for me was finding work and meeting the lofty goal that I established for myself in my month 1 posting. I remember writing "I will find work" and laughing because I didn't think it would happen so quickly. This is a sign that writing your goals really does help! June 1st I start work and then I can tell you what my job is as right now I'm still a little confused.
I think the main thing missing from our lives, is friends. Yes, we have met the neighbors and found them to be friendly and enjoyable people, but they are locals and already have their friends. Ben has friends through work and his old group of friends from his youth, but no local friends. I have not met many young German woman my age who are not chasing after kids. The women I do know are classmates and mostly speak Russian, but not anyone that I would want to be friends with and spend time outside class getting to know. All along I've told Ben that I need to find one woman who I bond with and can form a friendship. Ideally if I found another American it would be the easiest. The language barrier is getting smaller for me, but it is still definitely a huge hurdle. Tuesday I've invited 5-7 neighbor ladies over for coffee and cake in an attempt to form relationships with someone. All of them are older than me and a few could be my mother, but they are nice and they are my best hope for networking. It took every ounce of courage I had to go around the neighborhood, ring doorbells, and personally invite them for coffee. I've never had problems talking to people, but it literally took me 1.5 weeks of planning to build up the nerve to do it. Now that I have invited them and they all received the invitation with excitement I feel a huge relief. Prayers that my carrot cake turns out and then all will be ok.
Thank you for your continued emails and encouragement as we adjust to civilized life.



